![]() Say you know you’ve already gotten a denial from him about being interested in little girls, but you want to discuss some more what you’ve discovered about each other. You need to get out of the pigtails and schoolgirl uniform and have a calm talk with your boyfriend. You offered to act out his deepest secrets, and when he laid out the Good Ship Lollipop scenario on you, you freaked. You’re being somewhat unfair to your boyfriend. Lots of women have rape fantasies but would be horrified to find themselves actually being attacked. But someone whose sexuality really was oriented toward children probably wouldn’t find it terribly exciting to be with a grown woman dressing up as a school girl. I don’t know if your boyfriend is a closet pedophile. This doesn’t mean it would be more exciting to make them flesh and act them out. Many, maybe most, people have erotic streaming videos running in their heads (they’re free and unlimited!). However, I think your letter is an excellent reason why the urge to utter the phrase “I want to make all your sexual fantasies come true” is one that should be vigorously suppressed. For other couples, one person is willing to get into the plushies, or have fun with the car battery cables, as an occasional indulgence of their partner’s proclivities. Of course, some couples are lucky to have (or they seek out someone with) meshing fantasies that’s why S goes so well with M. When one person offers to fulfill a romantic partner’s sexual fantasy, it has to be said with the knowledge that the next thing you know you could be dressing up as Alvin the Chipmunk or attaching electrodes to your nipples. Is this a normal fantasy, or is this a sign of pedophilia? Should I run away as fast as possible? We started acting it out, and he wanted me to call him “Daddy.” He said things like, “You make Daddy feel so good” and “Don’t tell Mommy.” I am thoroughly freaked! He assured me that he does not want to have sex with young girls-that this is about role-playing dominance and innocence. I don’t understand that fantasy, but I’ve seen enough porn to know it’s common. The fantasy he described was to see me dressed up like a young girl wearing a short skirt and pigtails, sucking on a lollipop, and oozing innocence. Then I told him I wanted to make all his sexual fantasies come true and what happened next made me second-guess everything. I felt an emotional, physical, and mental connection with him that I had never felt before. I’ve been dating a guy for a couple of months and things were going great. ![]() Click here to submit a question or comment before or during the discussion. Next week’s live chat at will be on a special day: Tuesday, Jan. Please send your questions for publication to (Questions may be edited.) Get Dear Prudence delivered to your inbox each week click here to sign up.
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